Growth
An awareness of your feelings enables an opportunity for growth.
An ability to control your feelings and behaviours creates space for relationship growth.
Your emotional dashboard, like a car, will depend on your awareness.
For some, it’s a row of emojis: faces of joy, sad and mad.
And others, it’s a repertoire of descriptive feeling words.
Growing the awareness of feelings and behaviour impact relationships is the skill for growth.
A client shared his need to ‘always feel right’.
This supported his need to be controlling in meetings and to be seen as the hands-on boss.
Yet, the consequence of this feeling blocked his ability to listen which equated to zero relationship growth.
Slowing down and witnessing the resulting behaviour is a growth opportunity.
I used Relationship Intelligence (RQ) with this client and presented a dashboard showing the motives, conflict triggers, and strengths that felt good and those avoided in relationships with his team.
He saw the opportunity for relationship growth.
What would your team’s dashboard look like?
Your team’s RQ is accessible on a dashboard. Get in contact to test drive.